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Friday, January 18, 2013

I Got Flowers Today (Poem by Paulette Kelly)


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I GOT FLOWERS TODAY

I Got Flowers Today

I got flowers today.
It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night,
And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.
I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said.
Because he sent me flowers today.I got flowers today.
It wasn't our anniversary any other special day.
Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare.
I couldn't believe it was real.
I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today,
and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.
Last night, he beat me up again.
And it was much worse than all the other times.
If I leave him, what will I do?
How will I take care of my kids?
What about money?
I'm afraid of him and scared to leave.
But I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today.
Today was a very special day.
It was the day of my funeral.
Last night, he finally killed me.
He beat me to death.
If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him,
I would not have gotten flowers...today.
By Paulette Kelly
© Copyright 1992 Paulette Kelly
All Rights Reserved
  • A WOMAN IS BEATEN EVERY 15 SECONDS IN THE US
  • 4 MILLION WOMEN SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION EACH YEAR FROM ABUSE IN THE US
  • 4000 DIE EACH YEAR IN THE US
STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TODAY!!!
DO NOT TOLERATE IT!!!!!

"LOVE"








Most of us have heard of the word "love" before....one or two of us may have fell in "love" before..... a multitude of us have experienced being hurt by "love" and a few us actually get to spend the rest of our lives with real "love"..... there's a story behind each one of those and we encourage you to share your stories with someone, in whatever platform you chose to help heal the broken hearts in our communities.

Friday, January 11, 2013

PHILIPPIANS 4:6 (KJV)





"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.  And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."


This is one of my favorite scriptures just like most I'm sure, it really stood out to me this evening.  As I was scrolling through several social media sites this new year, the joys and sorrows I see is a mixture of feelings for me.  I put my rituals in gear whenever I'm writing a blog: heated the tea kettle, turned on my Kirk Franklin Pandora station, grabbed the laptop and said a small prayer, asking God to help me deliver a message to His people tonight who may be facing tough, challenging or NEW experiences in their lives.  Most people WANT new experiences, opportunities or success in their lives but they are not equipped to face the trials, rejections, lack of sleep, the pressures involved with success, sacrifices that are made (voluntarily or involuntarily) and various emotional traumas some of us experience headed up that success ladder.

The first part of that scripture says and warns us immediately, ..... "Be careful for nothing......"....... here, to me it's saying be careful not to stress over "nothing"(s) and ALL that you KNOW God can handle but with a sincere heart and if it's in His will for your life, ask God to deliver His blessings that you want, declare it and while you wait on God, He will keep your hearts and mind stayed on Jesus while you await the thing(s) that you asked of Him.  Yep, I know, easier said than done.  Most of us pray at the alter of heaven and as soon as we get up off of our bended knees, we began looking for signs and wonders of the Most High and rebuking the devil even out of the brooms in our house.  Y'all know I'm telling the truth.  Trust me, when I blog it's because I've been through it or is preaching to myself and hopefully helping you along the way as I share my thoughts.

Most of us pray for things that look nice on the surface but if God shall ever give us our desires, it'll blow up and down in turmoil because we'll be trying to get rid of it so fast.  I tell people that want to start a business, if you can't see yourself serving others first in some type of capacity then you CAN NOT be a LEADER.  I know a lot of potential writers who will never publish a book simply because of fear to make the first step..... which is, START WRITING or TYPING ....... SOMETHING!!!  They want the  final product which is the book published.  No researching of anything related to what their writing about.  Just the final product.  I am a living witness of pushing my fears to the side after I pray for something.  I don't have the money to do a lot of things up front but God reassures me so many times, "Just do what I ask you to do and I am blessing someone else, right now, to provide the resources you will need to carry out my vision." That's what that peace that passeth all understanding part means..... do your part and God has already done His and know that it shall be done.

I am a motivational speaker and inspiration to people who want to start from somewhere and improve their lives just as I did.  Everyday the devil tries to attack some area(s) of my life or he'll leave me alone for a period of time and guess what, when he shows up....he shows up.  But I'm so thankful that my faith exceeds any tricks he shows up with.  I learned to stop looking at what I don't see in the natural and claim what I want to see.  After I claim it, I reach out to others to help me and together, we help save the lives of others.  Times are hard and people are doing strange, illegal, sexual and other things for a few dollars to feed their families and live in a warm place.  How much stress could you take off of a single mother by volunteering to take her children to school and let her rest a little while longer before heading to work, help provide her with groceries, donate used clothes that you know you can't wear anymore (thank that extra scoop of ice cream or chocolate cake that you just had to have)?  The answer, a lot!!!!

Finally, when you pray, be thankful in advance for whatever blessings God sends into your life.  We pray for one thing and God will deliver a multitude of things that we would have never thought of to ask for ....hence, the reason why He is God who is omniscient which means He is an all knowing God.... you can believe that!!!


Saturday, January 5, 2013

HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH TO TAKE?



You ever felt like everything came crashing down at the same damn time in your life?  One thing after another just keeps happening?  No matter how much you give of yourself, money and time the return is never worth the stress it took?  You get rid of one problem and lurking behind you was another problem, posted, waiting to make an entrance?  Here yee, here yee..... I have felt and feel that way too. You pray for peace, strength, prosperity and then the devil gets every foot soldier he owns to make sure your day is a living hell.  Oh, what about ALL of your ideas are GREAT, but no one pays attention to them or support your vision?  As Bishop T.D. Jakes would say, "get ready, get ready".....

How much is too much to take just for one person to endure?  JUST GIVE UP? This question/statement is like a ritual inside of your head but something tugs at your spirit and tells you to keep on keeping on.  Or how about that famous line, God won't put more on you than you can bare but baring it is impossible at this point.  Again, I can say all of this because I've lived it and lawd knows I think it too sometimes.  I take life in whatever forms I'm dealt.  I learn and live to see another day.  I stress over minors and majors but I'm comforted in knowing that in the remembrance of what God has done in the past for me, I'm guaranteed that He is ever present and will work things out for you.

I was listening to this song I attached (above) on Pandora and instantly my hands hit the keyboard yet again.  Instead of giving up I feel like you find a better way to deal with certain situations that for now, you have no control over.  Step out into victory and walk away from the traps of the enemy satan who repeatedly tests and try you and not knowing that the Master already has a plan for you.  When God has a plan, THAT'S IT and THAT'S ALL ....it shall be done.

The journey of your pain and frustrations tell a story.  A story that someday you will read and say, "wow, I did that?  I said that?  I went through that?  I helped that person?  I didn't give up?  The enemy should've taken me out then but God kept me?"  At this point, somebody should be shouting THANK YOU JESUS FOR KEEPING ME.  Think about the thoughts of deliverance, healing and pressing forward, joy, abundance and any other fruits that will be added to your life if you DON'T GIVE UP!

How much is too much to take for one person to endure?  Only you and God know that answer.  But look at your situation(s) and ask yourself, what can you do differently?  Because clearly the same things you've been doing is NOT working.  Sacrifices and a lot of hard work lies ahead for you if you are ready to step out on faith and trust God and not trust in your fears of failures and/or rejection from your family or peers.  Not everyone is gonna like what you do or what you have to say (trust me, no one knocks down my door to talk about domestic violence and women empowerment, thankfully I obey what God assigns me to do and continuously be blessed while doing it).  The key of it all to me is, whatever you do you should enjoy it, embrace it, make a return investment on it and society should be a better place to live in because of it.

Let's help one another live an abundant life, what do you do when you feel like too much has happened and you want to give up but you don't?  Someone out there needs to hear your ways of survival and empowering testimonies.


Lastly, I'll leave you with a another one of my favorite meditation songs when I feel like giving up: