LETTING GO OF YOUR PAST

I was reminded of how a person shouldn't be condemned because of their past mistakes. Especially if the person that hurt you has repented, matured and has a consistent lifestyle change(s) for the better. It made my heart jump at the thought of not having this person around me anymore because of what happened in the past. It's okay to guard your heart and discern what's right and wrong in any relationship, whether it's personal or professional. But don't cast a person out because of a mistake they've made, a minute, month, year or years ago.

Take hold of the moment now and inhale the blessings that God has given unto you, thus far. Embrace the promises of your future through the word of God daily. There's nothing God can do about your situation(s) until you do one thing. What is it you ask? LET GO OF IT! See that wasn't hard to do, was it? God is omniscient (have total knowledge), omnipresent(everywhere at the same time) and omnipotent (have unlimited power and authority), trust when I say, HE DOESN'T NEED YOUR HELP! While you're waiting for His guidance in the shadow of His presence, take a moment and live your life. Why stress out over what he has already promised you? There is never a reason or answer to that question. Take comfort in my words and let them be a light unto your new path in life.

Don't forget after you let go of your past and let God handle your future........BREAK THE SILENCE of Domestic Violence!

CHOOSE LIFE!

Today, I thought about how my life has evolved over the past few years. In order to do that, I had to revisit the painful memories of my past. Although, I must admit, I am confident now through my faith in God, that my past allowed me to walk into my future. Back then, I was merely existing, walking on this beautiful earth and not knowing what my purpose for this journey of life was. I tried joining every young adult ministry at my local church and a host of other extra activities and hobbies to keep me busy, until I found my "nitch".

I believe it came to me in a vision. What, you ask? My purpose in life! I believe firmly that God whispered in my ear, "Choose life over the death of your situations. Choose to live in abundance, with meaning and leaving behind a legacy for people, daily". Take it from me, don't allow defeat, regection, guilt, shame or any other barrier that will block your path of choosing to live a healthy life.

For those of you who are victims of domestic violence, CHOOSE LIFE instead of a deadly situation and/or relationship. Think about making that first step into your future, just as I did, a few years ago. One step will always allow you to make another, after another, until you reach a safe haven for yourself and those around you that you love.

As for survivors, I humble myself while appreciating your time and support that you share with others. Your leading by example, have tremendously shown which option you chose and how you continue to choose life, daily.

Break the silence!

RELEASE!

There's a silence in the air, a calmness in your soul and the sounds of a brand new day. What does that mean, you ask? It means beloved, that you have released the negativity and painful experiences of life and domestic violence. It also means that you are set free of any bondage or neglect feelings that you stored deep down in your spirit. But most of all, it means, you are now able to wholeheartedly listen to God. So open up your spiritual eyes and ears and listen for what "Thus saith the Lord". He has in store, a mighty deliverance and healing just for you!

You may have looked back over your life and questioned, how did I get here? What do I do now that the storm is over? Release those questions to God! While you wait on your answer(s), continue to live and grow daily in the word of God. Let no day go past without humbly releasing praises unto our God. The best is yet to come in your life. You've endured and triumphed over every obstacle that stood in your way to reach this moment right now.

Release yourself from any shame, guilt or pain that makes it hard to forgive your abuser. Release that person to God and move on with your life. Forgetting what's behind you and looking forward to a promising future ahead of you.

Take each day a step at a time and when you released everything that the enemy meant to hurt and harm you, remember that God had it on His mind to make all things possible for you if you believe and trust in Him.

Break the silence!

BEAUTY FOR YOUR ASHES

As you walk away from the past of domestic violence, whether it was a second, day, year or years ago in the past, know that you shall recieve beauty for your ashes. Dark and deceitful ashes of the mental, physical and emotional scars that kept your heart and mind in bondage.

You've been through enough to continue to spend another moment in shame or full of painful memories. Life has enough turn arounds. Release the hurt and shames of your past to God and let Him create a new mind and a clean heart within you. He'll take away your former troubles and give you a brand new life, abundantly, if you just believe in Him.

Laugh and live life to fullest! Spread the word about domestic violence and help break the silence!