You ever met someone or know of someone, in this case, a woman, who is ALWAYS angry or negative about EVERYTHING? I know someone like that and personally, it's sad. Sad for them and those who are hugely affected by their anger.
Case 101 ANGRY WOMAN: ..... y'all almost work my last nerves, but I love you. Whatever that man, parents, kids, boss, did to you, don't do for you, would do for you but can't, whatever the case may be, it's YOU that is the cause of YOUR stress as well as YOUR happiness NOT them. Now you think every man is a liar, cheater or no one can change their ways cause yo' baby daddy made mistakes and now the world isn't deemed perfect until you get revenge.
Felicia's tough love says, GET OVER YOURSELF & MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Your power of forgiveness molds how you will spend your days here on Earth. Men have lied and cheated on me and I've done the same to them. Hurt people hurt people. But I made a promise to God, myself and my children that no one will ever again, have that much power and negative influence over my life.
My clients that I interact with mostly all come from hurting places and they have legitimate reasons why they are so hurt. My bottom line question to them is: How long are you gonna be hurt? I'm all for understanding someone close to you hurt you but you can't stay in that hurt stage forever. You have to forgive and move on from it. Always bringing up what they did to you 5 years ago, 10 years ago, hell, even 5 minutes ago, can keep you from your next blessings.
Women, there's nothing attractive about a bitter woman. Men like a versatile woman. That can direct the boardroom, house and bedroom. What man you know wants to sit around a woman angry and lifeless ALL the time? Not just in intimate relationships but also business relationships, friendships, etc. I am a very sociable person and it's not of my best interest to be around negative people. I have too much POSITIVE reinforcements and investors in my life, business, family and etc to be camped around negative people.
At the end of a hard days work or week, you want to share with people who believe in you, support you, challenge you to move yourself higher in your perspective field and who can enjoy your success with you. My partner is a WONDERFUL example of that, as well as I am to his dreams. Even in times of disagreements we RESPECT each others thoughts, expertise and experience in the fields and projects that we are into at the moments. EVERYONE HAS TO START FROM SOMEWHERE.
What bothers me the most are the angry women that sit around and talk negative about everybody and point their noses down at people but have yet, to make any contributions to society to help anyone else out. I love how humble I am NOW because I was always a cocky lil thing which got me NO WHERE that I wanted to be. It took some life experiences to turn myself down a notch and praise the Lord it happen quickly. These women are not mad at their target that lies on the surface they are angry at something that lies much deeper than that.
Women will unite to tear another woman down in a heartbeat. That's sad, when now women have the most opportunities, highest paying income in their homes, etc. I've never been the type to bad mouth someone else because they have something I might want or need. I posted on Instagram that, talking negative about some one else's dreams will NEVER get your executed. Speak life not death and get on with YOUR life and stop worrying about others!!!!
I'm so thankful that when I decided to go into business for myself and the communities of women I serve, it wasn't at the downfall of another woman dreams being dismissed. I am very humble to know and see how my actions motivate others to live out their dreams and accomplish their goals. It's a lot of hard work and any POSITIVE things going on that I can help out with, call me up. I can speak on these things now because I was at some point that bitter and angry woman and my life was so lacking living it to my full potential. People didn't want to be around me longer than 5 minutes and now a days, you wouldn't even know that time exists before. We all make mistakes, we all get angry but just don't stay angry and/or keep making the same mistakes.
I know this is a different writing style that you are used to from me but I hope some seeds of healing have been placed in your hearts and minds to give you a NEW life just as I have.
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